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The Method of Dealing with Potential Sexual Abuse

 

A sexual attack would not take place all of a sudden. The possible abuser would evaluate the behavior of his target before going ahead with his plan. However, a target person should have the awareness about good and bad touch before even thinking of reverting a sexual attack. Following are the types of touch that different people can have in one’s life.

 

Good Touch

A teacher or elder can touch the student’s upper back only in cases when he has to appreciate or get the learner’s attention.

 

Bad Touch

Nobody should touch the lower back of the students at all costs, not even the family members until there is a medical condition where the subject may need assistance in attending washroom

 

Touches Reserved for Family Only

Finally, only one’s family members have the permission to touch or kiss a person’s cheeks

 

Finally, a student should respond loudly to any indecent behavior concerning private parts of their bodies. Students should kill the evil in the beginning to stop the perverted in the initial stages to give a clear message that they do not want any physical contact or relationship with an untrustworthy person who may have the plan to take a physical advantage.

Any inappropriate touch should get a firm and negative response from the students to keep sexual attackers at bay. Students may also need to form a group of good friends not to allow the target students to have lonely time with a person who may have a history of violence and abuse. Becoming and remaining loud towards the abuser is the cornerstone of the process that can protect the students from experiencing sexual violence and abuse. When an attacker may attack, then the student needs to leave his office to reduce personal control of the offender over the environment. A learner should also behave loudly to give a clear message that he does not have any interest in the activities that an attacker may look to do in a private setting. Distance from the attacker and loudness of behavior would save the students from abusive persons.